An excerpt from, what, in my opinion, is one of the most intelligent books written, and to add to the grandeur of the book, it has been written in a very exquisite language. It’s one of those books that make you “think” at every turn of event. It makes you stop and consider in times that are swifter and impatient than the one in which it was written; thus taking you to an alternate reality. Written almostĀ 120 years (published in 1890) this book can teach us more about ourselves than retrospection and nirvana ever can. The Picture of Dorian Gray, is one book, I always maintained, I’d never recommend to anyone. It’s a book that one must alight upon on his own, if ever, because it might change your life, it might influence you…and I’m not sure if I want to be the reason someone’s life changes…
…After a few moments he said to him,Ā āHave you really a very bad influence, Lord Henry? As badĀ as Basil says?ā
āThere is no such thing as a good influence, Mr. Gray.Ā All influence is immoralāimmoral from the scientific pointĀ of view.ā
āWhy?ā
āBecause to influence a person is to give him oneās ownĀ soul. He does not think his natural thoughts, or burn withĀ his natural passions. His virtues are not real to him. His sins,Ā if there are such things as sins, are borrowed. He becomes anĀ echo of some one elseās music, an actor of a part that has notĀ been written for him. The aim of life is self-development. To realize oneās nature perfectlyāthat is what each of us is hereĀ for. People are afraid of themselves, nowadays. They haveĀ forgotten the highest of all duties, the duty that one owes toĀ oneās self. Of course, they are charitable. They feed the hungryĀ and clothe the beggar. But their own souls starve, andĀ are naked. Courage has gone out of our race. Perhaps weĀ never really had it. The terror of society, which is the basis ofĀ morals, the terror of God, which is the secret of religionāthese are the two things that govern us. And yetāā …
…āAnd yet,ā continued Lord Henry, in his low, musical voice,Ā and with that graceful wave of the hand that was always soĀ characteristic of him, and that he had even in his Eton days,Ā āI believe that if one man were to live out his life fully andĀ completely, were to give form to every feeling, expression toĀ every thought, reality to every dreamāI believe that the worldĀ would gain such a fresh impulse of joy that we would forgetĀ all the maladies of mediaevalism, and return to the HellenicĀ idealāto something finer, richer than the Hellenic ideal, itĀ may be. But the bravest man amongst us is afraid of himself.Ā The mutilation of the savage has its tragic survival in theĀ self-denial that mars our lives. We are punished for our refusals.Ā Every impulse that we strive to strangle broods in theĀ mind and poisons us. The body sins once, and has doneĀ with its sin, for action is a mode of purification. NothingĀ remains then but the recollection of a pleasure, or the luxuryĀ of a regret. The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yieldĀ to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for theĀ things it has forbidden to itself, with desire for what its monstrousĀ laws have made monstrous and unlawful. It has beenĀ said that the great events of the world take place in the brain.Ā It is in the brain, and the brain only, that the great sins of theĀ world take place also…ā
– Oscar Wilde in The Picture of Dorian Gray
– Sameen
Did I ask you to read it? I read it but, I think u know, that i read it a long long time back and i’m sure i did not take in as much as u have!
I got to read it again:-)
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Yes you asked me to read it. And it is the best thing I have done this year! :-) Go read it again!
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I read the book when I was 16 years old. I was shaken by it. I was scared and bullied by the words in the book. I did not have the guts to complete it. I left it when some 20 pages were left and never went back to reading it. It is profound and larger than life. Maybe I will try and finish it when I feel I can.
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And no one had asked me to read it, I just took it up one day. It was a life-changing experience to say the least.
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It surely is a life-changing book! :-)
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